Everything you need to know about female ejaculation

Can women “cum” too?

There are countless myths surrounding the subject of female ejaculation. “It’s urine,” some know, “it’s something like sperm,” others claim. But what is it? Even scientists disagree, and there are always passionate discussions about whether women can ejaculate at all.

The fact is that Aristotle reported more than 2000 years ago that women can “cum” during orgasm.

Those who have experienced it believe they belong to a special species. Those who have never experienced it doubt their own abilities. And then there are the men. I made my wife squirt, I’m a hero,” shout successful gentlemen of creation. “I just can’t do it,” lament the others, who soon think they are bad lovers.

What is really behind female ejaculation and whether the ability to do it has anything to do with the qualities of the lover, we would like to enlighten!

What is squirting?

Before we talk about the reasons, the ability or the composition of the fluid, it is first necessary to analyze squirting in the first place. What happens in the female body when suddenly small or even large amounts of liquid are squirted.

So, during squirting, it gets wet. Shortly before or even during the orgasm, a bump-white liquid is discharged, similar to the male orgasm. This process is accompanied by strong pleasure, however, it is not synonymous with climax. Many women experience their orgasm during the squirt, but both phenomena can also occur separately.

The phenomenon doesn’t seem to be that rare at all, because in a survey more than 50 percent of the women questioned said that they had recently experienced an orgasm with fluid secretion. But what kind of fluid is it that wets the bed and usually makes the partner (if there is one) mighty proud?

Ejaculate or urine?

First of all a fact: Female ejaculation and squirting are two different things! While female ejaculation actually ejects secretions whose main component is PSA (prostate secretion), squirt fluid is predominantly urine, as these two studies [1, 2] prove.

Sounds confusing, doesn’t it? Because many women don’t even know that they also have a prostate. How could they, after all, the prostate has always been considered a male organ.

But first, back to the fluid. In female ejaculation, the fluid that escapes comes from the Skene gland, the female prostate. In squirting, on the other hand, the fluid is squirted from the urethra and occurs in large quantities. It consists largely of urine.

In medical examinations, ultrasound has already been used to determine that the urinary bladder was filled before squirting. After orgasm, the urinary bladder was emptied again, the liquid was squirted.

The female prostate – what is it?

When it comes to the prostate and its stimulation, actually only men are addressed. Perhaps you are now hearing for the very first time that you too have such an organ. Unlike men, however, it is not located in your anus, but behind your clitoris, a bit outside your urethra. Medically, it is also called the paraurethral gland or Skene’s gland.

By the way, not all women have the same degree of this female prostate gland. The stronger the formation and thus the similarity to the male prostate, the higher the probability of a real, female ejaculation.

Is every woman able to ejaculate?

First of all, every woman is an individual and if you have not yet succeeded in ejaculating, it does not mean that your sex life is less exciting. There are considerable anatomical differences from woman to woman. This is already evident in the ability to reach orgasm. Some women can only do it vaginally [] others need clitoral stimulation by, for example, a lay-on vibrator or their own fingers to drive themselves to climax.

Basically, every woman is anatomically capable of squirting, but not every woman can ejaculate. The fluid used in squirting comes from the urinary bladder, and this can be spontaneously secreted during intense arousal.

However, if the Skene gland is not particularly developed, often a sufficient amount of female ejaculate cannot be formed. Researchers have already theorized that actually every woman ejaculates, but due to the small amount, there is no leakage of the fluid. This means that you experience the same feeling as an ejaculating woman, but you do not see any result in the form of ejaculate.

According to descriptions from other women, ejaculation feels like an “extra orgasm”. It is described as a complete “dropping”, a moment of weightlessness. However, numerous gals also attribute similar effects to the Rabbit vibrators known from Sex and the City. So maybe you’ve already ejaculated, but just haven’t noticed it yet?

What role does the G-spot play?

The G-spot plays no role in female ejaculation, but it is very relevant in squirting. Most women squirt when they are intensively stimulated in the area of the G-spot, for example with a special G-spot vibrator.

The G-spot is located about four to six centimeters behind your vaginal entrance. Stimulation of this raised point can make you feel like you need to go to the bathroom. Many women experience the sensation of needing to urinate during intense G-spot stimulation, which can be explained by its close proximity to the urethra.

The nerve endings of the G-spot and the nerve endings of the urethra sit so close together that your brain gets confused. It really only knows the nerve impulse as the urge to urinate. By stimulating the G-spot more and more frequently, your brain is in a great position to train this. Intensive stimulation of the G-spot can result in “squirting”. The main component of the fluid is urine, but it often also contains ejaculate.

How can I learn to squirt myself?

Learning to squirt is possible! A representative survey and study regarding ejaculation in women showed that 69% of the participants ejaculated. To enjoy involuntary ejaculation yourself, in most cases it takes nothing but practice, practice, practice.

Learning to squirt in three steps

Most women learn to squirt easier if they first deal with themselves. Because absolute relaxation the ability to drop are the basic factors. Together with the partner there is often too much pressure and it does not work out already therefore with the female orgasm.

Simultaneous stimulation of clitoris and vagina

The basis for successful squirting is the simultaneous stimulation of your clitoris and vagina. Various sex toys can be considered for this purpose. A butterfly vibrator is a great way for you to stimulate your clitoris and G-spot at the same time, while still keeping your hands free for other areas of your body. This way, you can create an even stronger arousal by additionally stimulating your nipples.

Womanizers and the like are also known for their orgasm guarantee and are a proven way to heat up your clitoris. With an additional vibrator you can now stimulate your G-spot or you can pleasure yourself in this area with your fingers.

Find a comfortable position

You see it so often in porn movies: women lying on their backs and squirting for all they’re worth. These girls are professionals, already practiced for a long time and able to control their squirting ability. For beginners, however, the riding position is the perfect way to reach a splashing orgasm during sex. In this position, your partner stimulates your vaginal wall including the G-spot. In addition, there is enough surface area for him or yourself to pleasure your clitoris.

In solo mode, you can also get into the comfortable supine position to completely let yourself go.

A little tip to make your G-spot even more accessible: Use a sex pillow that raises your pelvis and gives you (or your partner) comfortable access to your pleasure lock.

Complete relaxation for squirting

To squirt, you need to let go. Maybe you’ve even been close to it before! Have you ever had the feeling just before climax or during the act in general that you urgently need to go to the toilet? Have you panicked and spoiled your own pleasure with your compulsive bladder control? That might have already been the magic line to squirt.

When you feel that “urge to urinate” just before orgasm on your next pleasurable date with yourself or your partner, don’t tense up, let it happen. Just let the fluid and the climax come.

How does it feel when women ejaculate?

The question about how it feels to squirt is asked by women and even men! And in fact, every woman tells a little something different.

Basically, however, squirting feels like a strong urge to urinate at the first moment. Many women tense up in this situation and try to suppress the unwanted urine output. But this is exactly the crux of the matter. If you manage to let go now, you will, according to other women, experience an intense orgasm.

Squirting should feel like an XXL orgasm, like a multiple orgasm, only more intense and like a complete relaxation of the pelvis. However, it is often not the squirting itself that leads to this intense experience, but the vaginal orgasm in general. Most women experience a G-spot orgasm much more intensely than clitoral stimulation.

Conclusion

Female ejaculation is and remains a myth. Some are convinced of it, others doubt its existence. Scientifically, there is disagreement here, but studies show again and again that women are able to ejaculate. Far more often, however, women succeed in squirting and here the general consensus is that every woman can learn to do it. Our tip: Try it out, but don’t put yourself under pressure. Intense orgasms are possible even without the wet and happy pleasure.

What if I can’t squirt?

You try again and again, but it just doesn’t work? Very important: Never put yourself under pressure. Even if you’re never able to experience a wet and happy orgasm, you can still be on cloud nine! Intense, vaginal orgasms are something most women can learn to do, even if it doesn’t involve a fine spray of liquid pleasure pouring over your sheets.

Can women squirt on command?

How do the women in the movies do it? They squirt even though cameras and directors are standing around them? Actually, skilled women are able to squirt on command. Once the mechanism is ingrained in the brain and it knows the nerve stimuli, many women can expel the fluid in a controlled manner, even without orgasm! However, the intensity of the experience is then much less intense, because it is only a body routine.

What does the liquid smell like anyway?

“Ugh, that smells like urine,” many a woman would like to claim in horror when she learns the ingredients of the liquid. But to reassure you: Female ejaculate simply smells like “nothing.” Just think of your partner’s ejaculation. This is passed out through the urethra at a good pace. But does the liquid smell like urine? Or otherwise unpleasant? Usually male semen has no smell and so it is with the female fluid.

What does female ejaculate taste like?

According to one study, female ejaculate has a slightly sweet taste, which is why it is also called “nectar of the gods” in India. It is questionable whether the taste can be influenced by eating pineapple and the like, as is the case with men.

What do men think of female ejaculation?

Here the opinions of the gentlemen are probably quite different. On the male side, those who have never seen the phenomenon or did not even know about it will probably be startled by the sudden pee attack at first. However, many men have seen it in porn before and have been after it ever since to make their own woman squirt. Why actually? Well, the female orgasm is a crux for men. They don’t see it! In the back of their minds, the question probably often lurks, “What if she’s faking the whole thing?”. But disappointment for the male world: even squirting is no sure proof that the partner has really come.

Everything You Need To Know About Female Ejaculation